17 July 2025

Wharton on Making Decisions

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Stephen J. Hoch and Howard C. Kunreuther present a series of articles about making decisions written by professors at the Wharton School of Business at the University of Pennsylvania. The articles describe how decisions are made using an ideal scenario, and then offer practical suggestions on how to make better business decisions. The book is designed to help top executives and managers use the latest methods of analysis and reasoning in decision making. Some may find this approach overly academic - in that many of the research findings are based on social laboratory experiments, statistical analysis and modeling - but if you’ve been making decisions based on guts, glory and a coin toss, the latest scholarship does offer some stronger strategies. BooksInShort found several in this solid book that will be of great help to managers dealing with employees, executives formulating strategy and finance or compliance officers weighing corporate risks.

Take-Aways

  • People make decisions on four levels: as an individual, as a manager, in negotiations (or multi-party interactions) and on a societal level.
  • Become aware of how you and others make decisions.
  • Even with logical models, decision makers don’t always decide logically.
  • Negative emotions greatly influence decision-making, and can prolong it.
  • People usually don’t plan more than one step beyond a current decision.
  • A desire for variety can cause confusion and lead to poor decisions.
  • To improve your decision-making, combine your intuition with decision-making models.
  • One good decision-making strategy is to combine the West’s emphasis on expedience with the East’s emphasis on reflection.
  • Use data mining and large-scale simulation models in making complex decisions.
  • Since most people can’t detect deception, the best defense is to reduce the likelihood that people will use deception in a negotiation.

Summary

The Complex Web of Decision Making

To make better decisions, become proactive by reshaping your decision-making process to be completely conscious. Become more aware of how you make decisions. Draw on deliberate insights about how people make decisions and how to make better ones.

There are four levels of decision making:

  • Individual - A person’s decisions are often influenced by emotions, intuitions and a focus on the present versus consequences in the future.
  • Manager - Making decisions as a manager, you may be more concerned with using models to facilitate making decisions, particularly complex decisions.
  • Negotiations - This includes decisions made in various interactions with multiple parties.
  • Societal - Decisions that are made on the societal level affect choices about such issues as environmental protection and health-care coverage.

These different levels of decision making can contribute to the success or failure of an organization. For example, examine the failure of the Barings Bank. Nick Leeson, the manager of the bank’s Singapore office, made a decision to conceal an error an employee made - to sell rather than buy a contract in the futures market. This decision led to a series of other decisions to engage in deceptive actions, and the problem was compounded by other bank officials’ decisions to supervise Leeson’s actions insufficiently and to ignore signs of danger in the Singapore branch.

“Decision makers have great difficulty in evaluating low-probability, high-risk events before disaster strikes, so they tend to under-protect themselves beforehand and over-protect themselves afterward.”

Both Barings and Leeson made numerous strategic decision-making errors that contributed to the bank’s failure, including being blinded by emotions, relying too much on intuition, overly emphasizing speed, failing to detect deception, underestimating risks, using insufficient information technology to support the decisions being made and being protected by insufficient regulation.

Making Personal Decisions

Decision makers don’t always think logically, even if they have logical decision models. "The Emotional Nature of Decision Trade-Offs," an article by Mary Frances Luce, John W. Payne and James Bettman, explains that emotions affect your choices. For instance, your company is downsizing a department and you have to fire two of your 10 current employees. As you weigh a number of factors - such as job skill, age, tenure with the organization, family situation and current rate of pay - your compassion for employees and your concern about your own reputation may come into play.

“People have a much harder time giving up something than acquiring it (loss aversion), even though it is the same object with the same value.”

While you may want to find the best normative solution based on what you consider a "normatively appropriate strategy," your desire to control or minimize your negative emotions may unduly influence you. You may spend more time making the decision, because you want to avoid these difficult emotions. In fact, as the stakes of decision-making go up, your negative emotions gain an increasing influence over the way you weigh the trade-offs that are part of making any decision. To make better decisions, recognize the influence of your emotions. Then, try to reduce the emotional difficulty of decision making by considering the factors sequentially and confronting your emotional reactions directly.

You can also make better decisions if you avoid relying too much on your intuition, particularly when making complex decisions, as discussed by Robert J. Meyer and J. Wesley Hutchinson in their article, "Bumbling Geniuses: The Power of Everyday Reasoning in Multistage Decision Making." As they note, humans are often poor at looking into the future and making intuitive guesses about how to solve complex problems. Although your intuition may give you a good result at times, decision makers tend to be overconfident about their occasional successes and too often think that a good solution to one problem will work in solving another problem. The result can be a very serious error with long-term consequences. One big problem, according to Meyer and Hutchinson, is that decision makers are often myopic about forward planning, since people generally plan no further than one step beyond a current decision.

“As the stakes of a decision increase, the desire to find the best normative solution may coexist with the desire to manage or minimize one’s negative emotions.” (Mary Frances Luce, John W. Payne and James R. Bettman)

Managers frequently undervalue the costs of an opportunity in making investment decisions and use moment-by-moment opportunism in scheduling activities rather than long-term comprehensive planning. Managers are also likely to give more weight to concrete and vivid information - like a cash outlay - as opposed to intangible, ambiguous information - such as improved future profits. This leads to bad decisions, for example, choosing not to make current investments in improved processes for future gains.

Confirmation Bias

People are also biased toward information that confirms their current opinions and have a better memory for information that supports their biases. Thus, to make better decisions, avoid being myopic. Pay more attention to future possibilities and consider whether your starting analogy is appropriate for the problem at hand. Also, pay more heed to feedback, so you can learn from your mistakes as you pursue a complex decision-making process.

“When processing information, we are inherently prone to give more weight to that which is more concrete and vivid at the expense of that which is more intangible and ambiguous.” (Robert J. Meyer and J. Wesley Hutchinson)

To make better decisions, become more aware of the influence of wanting variety, as pointed out by Barbara E. Kahn and Andrea Morales in their article: "Choosing Variety." People are drawn to variety because they are seeking a new outlook or wishing to enhance routine activities. But in decision making, too much variety can add confusion and waste time. To better manage variety, decision makers should increase their perceived variety while keeping down costs.

For example, focus on the more meaningful dimensions of variety - such as when a car salesman offers you several color choices but only two warranty options. If you are presenting a decision, don’t offer an overwhelming number of options.

Making Decisions as a Manager

To improve your managerial decision making, combine your intuition with decision-making models, as Stephen J. Hoch explains in "Combining Models to Improve Decisions." By using a model - such as an information-driven decision support system (DSS) - you minimize the human element, harness information technology as a power tool and use information technology to cover up or complement any weaknesses you may have as a decision maker.

“Every decision involves trade-offs. Decision making is essentially the process of accepting less of something to get more of something else.” (Mary Frances Luce, John W. Payne and James R. Bettman)

This balanced approach works because experts and models have complementary strengths and weaknesses. Whereas models excel at objective evaluation, experts are subject to biases of perception and evaluation, and can suffer from overconfidence and or the influence of organizational politics. Experts can also get tired, bored and emotional, and do not consistently combine the data gained from one occasion with the data from another.

“In general, decision makers construct their choice strategies by maximizing accuracy, minimizing decision effort and minimizing negative emotions.” (Mary Frances Luce, John W. Payne and James R. Bettman)

On the other hand, models know only what the experts tell them and, thus, can predict, but not diagnose. Models can also be too rigid in their consistency.

For best advantage, combine your intuition and a model to benefit from the strengths of both. Use your intuition to identify relevant attributes and place a value on the level of each attribute. Then use the model to integrate these individual attributes and improve your ability to make judgmental forecasts, such as what items to put on sale in the future.

Wisdom, East and West

In their article, "Reflective Versus Expedient Decision Making: Views from East and West," Karen A. Jehn and Keith Weigelt suggest drawing on the wisdom of both the East and the West in making decisions. Western decision making emphasizes reaching a quick, expedient decision on the basis that "time is money," whereas Eastern decision makers prefer more patient reflection. While faster decision making can result in poor decisions, they can be better in a crisis situation where some decision is needed and patient contemplation is inappropriate.

Quick decisions get the job done and overcome the inertia of large organizations, but haste makes waste, and increases the danger of myopia and excess emotion. Conversely, careful reflection can result in a good decision and cuts the danger of being surprised by an unexpected outcome. Ideally, combine the best of both approaches by using patient, reflective decision making when you can - particularly to look for disconfirming evidence - and by directing your energy. But when necessary, be expedient.

“Although our cognitive abilities are poorly equipped to solve complex dynamic-optimization problems, our intuitive guesses about optimal solutions turn out to be, in some instances, surprisingly good.” (Robert J. Meyer and J. Wesley Hutchinson)

Further your ability to make complex decisions by using new tools, such as data mining and large-scale simulation models, as described by Paul R. Kleindorfer in "Decision Making in Complex Environments: New Tools for a New Age." You can also decide by using different "frames," cognitive structures that organize and simplify a complex environment, as described by Paul J. H. Schoemaker and J. Edward Russo in "Managing Frames to Make Better Decisions."

"As decision makers, we are prone to be over-confident in our occasional success and over generalize the degree to which good intuitive solutions to some dynamic problem also offer good solutions to other problems. (Robert J. Meyer and J. Wesley Hutchinson)

Start with a frame audit to identify and change inferior frames, using a variety of reframing techniques. Such frames include problem frames to generate solutions, decision frames to choose among alternatives, and thinking frames to apply experience to the way you consider things. Create a mental model to describe a frame visually. Then, assess whether your own frames are effective. Do they lead you to ask the right questions and to be amenable to change? Examine your reference points and assumptions, experiment with multiple frames and try to align your frames with other peoples’ to reach a mutual decision.

Multi-Party Decision-Making

In negotiations, you can make better decisions if you think strategically. As Colin F. Camerer and Teck H. Ho point out in "Strategic Learning and Teaching," you can use theories of interactive learning, belief learning and experience-weighted attraction to respond to others more productively.

To adapt your approach effectively, realize that people learn differently, based on three key factors - considerations about lost opportunity, perceptions about change in the environment and commitment to a strategy, even if it isn’t working well. Whatever the situation, you can do better if you understand how others learn and if you look for opportunities to learn from the situation as well.

“The human desire for variety does not always have positive consequences for organizations. Variety can add cost and complexity to decision making and slow down the process as managers or customers sift through endless arrays of options.” (Barbara E. Kahn and Andrea Morales)

You can improve your negotiation skills by becoming more aware of the styles of the other parties in negotiations, based on their reputation. In "Reputations in Negotiation", Steven Glick and Rachel Croson point out that negotiators are more likely to use tough tactics defensively with tough partners and offensively with those perceived as lightweights. Conciliatory approaches are more likely with middle-of-the-road negotiators.

“Although humans are not well-suited to memorization of minute details, they have great strength in finding and remembering meaning. The inevitable weakness is that humans tend to see patterns and fill out pictures that may not be there.” (Stephen J. Hoch)

Pay attention to the dangers of deception, as Maurice E. Scheitzer notes in "Deception in Negotiations." Since most people are not very good at detecting deception, the best defense is to reduce the likelihood that people will use deception, such as establishing trust by convincing others you will not use deception. Heed non-verbal cues, ask direct questions, keep records and get things in writing.

You can use e-mail and other information technologies to assist in a negotiation, as G. Richard Shell notes in "Electronic Bargaining: The Perils of E-Mail and the Promise of Computer Assisted Negotiations." E-mail can facilitate a less emotional approach to negotiations. It can shield negotiators who dislike face-to-face confrontations or it can include lower-level employees on a more even playing field. You can even use e-mail to build electronic coalitions of far-flung people who share a common goal.

Finally, decision makers can make better decisions about societal issues, such as health care and the environment, by understanding the decision-making process more clearly. In "A Change of Heart: Unexpected Responses to Medical Testing," John Hershey and David A. Asch discuss how managers make decisions about medical testing and what to tell patients.

About the Authors

Stephen J. Hoch is a professor of marketing at the Wharton School, University of Pennsylvania. He previously taught at the University of Chicago Howard C. Kunreuther is a professor of decision sciences and public policy and management, as well as co-director of the Risk Management and Decision Process Center at the Wharton School. Robert E. Gunther was the coordinating writer for Wharton on Dynamic Competitive Strategy and Wharton on Managing Emerging Technologies.


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17 July 2025

Differentiate or Die

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Have you ever looked at an advertisement and wondered what product was being sold? If so, you’re not alone. Writers Jack Trout and Steve Rivkin thought the same thing and concluded, after 30 years in the marketing and advertising business, that the creative trend in ads has gone way too far. They believe modern companies should follow the advice of legendary ad man Rosser Reeves, and focus on their "Unique Selling Proposition." The authors caution that your company can survive in today’s hyper-competitive environment only by accentuating its advantageous difference. Companies that don’t promote their differences are in danger of being lost within a suffocating realm of choices. But proceed warily; focusing on the wrong difference could cost your business its business. BooksInShort sees this as primary reading for execs at any company, since the ability to stand out might be today’s key determinant to survival.

Take-Aways

  • Global competition makes it more important than ever to make sure your company’s message is distinct and different.
  • Companies need to promote the idea of a Unique Selling Proposition (USP).
  • The job of an effective leader is to figure out the company’s USP and promote it.
  • Too many of today’s ad campaigns convey a vague and puffy message.
  • Mistakes can ruin your enterprise
  • Lowering the price of your company’s product may not be a good way to compete.
  • Expanding your line of products might work against the interests of your company.
  • Be careful - Not all differences are positive selling points.
  • CEOs often fail because they don’t promote their company’s strategic, advantageous difference.

Summary

The Tyranny of Choice

Choice benefits consumers, but it makes work harder for businesses. Choice in everything - from healthcare to restaurants to rental agencies - creates a competitive situation. The battle that used to feature local companies competing against each other locally has become a global capitalistic hot war in which everybody has to compete against everybody everywhere.

“As companies race to benchmark each other, companies become more alike.”

Companies can’t make mistakes. If you do, your competitors get your business and you don’t get it back very easily. Companies that don’t understand this will not survive.

"Differentiate or die" means that you have to give your customer a compelling reason, or "difference," to buy your product as opposed to your competitors’. You can create differences in many ways, but any approach involves stepping over a lot of potholes. Trying to be everything to everybody can undermine your company’s profile.

“Cutting prices is usually insanity if the competition can go as low as you can.”

Chevrolet used to be known as the dominant good-value family car. Then Chevy added a number of different brands to its stock - and what does Chevrolet stand for now? Their ’differentness’ melted away.

You also can lose your difference if you ignore changes in the market. DEC missed the PC revolution and simply didn’t switch to desktop machines fast enough. The problem of hyper-competition fueled by choice will only get worse. Choice appears to beget more choice.

Whatever Happened to the Unique Selling Proposition?

Back in 1960, Rosser Reeves was known as the "King of the Hard Sell." Reeves wrote a very popular book called Reality in Advertising in which he introduced the concept of the Unique Selling Proposition (USP).

“Operational effectiveness means you’re running the same race faster. But strategy is choosing to run a different race than the one you’ve set yourself up to win.”

Reeves gave this very precise concept a three-part definition:

  1. Each advertisement must make a proposition to the consumer - not just words or product puffery. Every ad should tell the audience why they should buy and what specific benefit they will derive.
  2. You must advertise a benefit that your competition doesn’t offer, such as a uniqueness of brand or a new claim.
  3. Your unique selling proposition must be so strong that it will compel customers to shift to your product.

Dare to be Different

Modern advertisers simply no longer recognize the importance of being different or the fact that customers make their buying decisions based on differences between products. It may not be "cool" to offer the customer a reason to buy your product but, like it or not, consumers like to be sold.

“The strategic idea - the differentiating idea - is easily half the battle, not to mention the more important half. Without the powerful single idea, all the motivation and people skills in the world aren’t going to help.”

You can sell your differentiation by appealing to intuitives, thinkers, feelers and sensors. Intuitives are interested in new products or new possibilities. Thinkers are analytical and ignore emotional appeals. Pitch thinkers with facts. Feelers are obviously interested in feelings and can be swayed by third-party appeals. Sensors see things as they are and have a great respect for the facts. Often, people are a mixture of these categories, so it’s important to combine approaches.

USPs That Don’t Work

Today, the number of new products and the air of heightened competition make it much harder to hang onto your unique selling proposition. Some USP ideas work and some don’t. These four don’t:

1. Customer service and quality are rarely differentiating ideas

These are givens, not differences. For example, Summit Bank, a $20 billion New Jersey institution, offers a pitch to the public where Bob Cox, the bank president, states that the bank wants to serve the customer better. He says, "We’re reaching higher." Unfortunately, those ideas are not an effective solution in a hyper-competitive market. The customer expects reasonable prices and quality service. Furthermore, ensuring quality customer service doesn’t guarantee either higher profit margins or customer commitment.

2. Creativity is not a differentiating idea

Rosser once wrote about the disturbing trend of vague advertising, or advertising that doesn’t clearly tell the buyer what is special or different about the product. "Puffery has been replaced with vagueness," he wrote. This trend has gotten so bad that it often is hard to determine what product is being advertised.

“The dictionary defines tyranny as absolute power that often is harsh or cruel. So it is with choice. With the enormous competition, markets today are driven by choice. The consumer has so many good alternatives that you pay dearly for your mistakes.”

The pro-creativity branding crowd argues that to cut into the clutter, you have to form a bond with the customer or you’ll be ignored. This kind of thinking extends back to legendary ad man Bill Bernbach, who came up with the "Think Small" Volkswagen ads. However, Bernbach designed ads that stressed creative differentiation, not creativity for creativity’s sake.

3. Price is rarely a differentiating idea

Price is often the enemy of differentiation. Making price the main consideration for selecting your product is a terrible strategy because any company with a pencil can compete. Cutting prices is usually insanity if the competition can go as low as you can. Actually, it is far more impressive to differentiate with high price because high-quality products should cost more and high-quality products should offer prestige. People will always pay more for the highest value.

4. Breadth of line is a difficult way to differentiate

As with price, breadth of line is a difference that your competitors can emulate easily. Size also creates its own problems, because you have to worry about managing a large selection of products and confusing big store layouts. Today, the Internet allows companies such as Amazon.com to offer an unlimited amount of goods. Breadth of line proves that not all differentiators are created equal.

“The concept of being unique or different is far more important in the year 2000 than it was in 1960.”

History is full of CEOs who failed to utilize the best differences of their firms and, thus, failed to excel. Volkswagen’s Carl Hahn, who was CEO from 1982 to 1992, overextended the brand and attempted to sell big and pricey VWs when the public wanted the exact opposite. Apple Computer’s John Sculley, CEO from 1983 to 1993, failed to maximize the company’s pacesetting ease of use. And DEC’s Robert Palmer, CEO from 1992 to 1998, failed to anticipate the next generation of personal computers.

The Steps to Real Differentiation

Jack Trout and Steve Rivkin developed a process during their 30 years in the "differentiating business" that has nothing to do with being imaginative, cute or creative. It has to do with being logical and direct.

“Puffery has been replaced with vagueness. A large amount of today’s advertising has gotten so creative or entertaining that it’s sometimes hard to tell what companies are even advertising.”

Their advertising strategies follow this step-by-step plan:

  1. Make sense in the context -Your difference has to make sense within the competing arguments of the competition and your market. Your difference has to make sense within the environment of perceived weaknesses and strengths. Good timing in making your pitch certainly helps.
  2. Find the differentiating idea - To be different is to be not the same. To be unique is to be one of a kind. Look for the single, unique quality that separates you from your competitors.
  3. Have the credentials - If your product difference is valid, then you should be able to show it. You can’t show difference with smoke and mirrors. You might not be challenged if you make false claims, but you shouldn’t risk that result because it could damage public opinion.
  4. Communicate your difference - You must show consumers every aspect of your marketing difference. Every aspect of your communications, from brochures to advertising to your Web presentations, should reflect and highlight the qualities that make you different.

USPs That Work

Some USPs actually work, including these four:

1. Being first is a differentiating idea

Those who move in first have a tremendous advantage in the market. Playboy still leads Penthouse, Time still leads Newsweek and Hertz still leads Avis. First movers tend to stay first because people are reluctant to change brands. However, being the first one to get to market doesn’t guarantee success, as the fates of Diner’s Club and DEC attest.

2. Owning a specific attribute is a way to differentiate

An attribute is a characteristic, peculiarity or distinctive feature. For example, cars have attributes. Mercedes means engineering and Jaguar means style. Products with superior attributes should have better sales. The most effective attributes are simple and benefit-oriented. Moreover, not all attributes are created equal and some can even be negative, such as "high sodium" in a food product.

3. Heritage is a differentiating factor

History helps customers buy. People assume that the company must be doing something right. Customers attach heritage attributes to both countries and companies. For example, the U.S. is known for computers and airplanes, Russia is known for vodka and caviar, and France is known for wine and perfume.

4. Leadership is a way to differentiate

Leadership is the most powerful way to differentiate a brand. This is true because highlighting your brand’s leadership is the direct way to establish brand credentials and credentials are the collateral you offer to guarantee brand performance.

Leadership

You can differentiate your product based on three different forms of leadership:

1. Sales leadership

Leaders use the top sales strategy the most. This approach works because people tend to buy what others buy.

2. Technology leadership

Companies that have long histories of technological leadership often use this strategy. People are impressed with companies that develop new technologies because they figure that company knows more.

3. Performance leadership

Some companies have products that don’t sell a lot but are the best performing of their brand. You can sell quality, because some buyers want the best regardless of how much a product costs.

“As with price, the problem of using breadth of line as a differentiator is that there is no way to keep your competitors from using the same strategy.”

Other positive differentiating factors include market specialty, preference, being the latest, being the hottest and specific factors about how a product is made that make it unique among its’ competitors. Finally, the success of any enterprise depends on its leaders articulating their company’s advantageous difference. In this era of killer competition, only companies that stress their differences will survive.

About the Authors

Jack Trout is president of Trout and Partners, a U.S. marketing firm with offices in 13 countries and a client list that includes AT&T, IBM, Merrill Lynch, Sears and other Fortune 500 companies. Recognized as one of the influential gurus of marketing, Trout was the first to popularize the idea of "positioning" products and ideas in the minds of consumers. Steve Rivkin heads his own communications consulting firm. The firm’s clients include Kraft Foods, Olin Corporation and Horizon Health System.


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17 July 2025

The Compromise Trap

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How do good people lose their moral compass? Elizabeth Doty interviewed business professionals and drew on her own experiences as a corporate consultant to find out. She concluded that some people fall into the “compromise trap,” yielding to unhealthy pressure exerted at even the best companies. Doty explains that you must develop personal resources that allow you to stay true to your values. She recommends finding a higher purpose, a beacon, to steer you away from making decisions that conflict with your beliefs. Doty’s “key concepts” and “individual and group activities” provide practical exercises for integrating her theories into your day-to-day behavior. BooksInShort recommends this book if you’re feeling compromised, wrestling with a moral dilemma or seeking expertise in business ethics.

Take-Aways

  • The “compromise trap” occurs when you make detrimental compromises in response to unhealthy pressure.
  • People feel that they need to “play the game” to get ahead.
  • “Redefine the game” by letting your values guide your behavior and actions.
  • Standing by your values, despite pressure, requires a strong “personal foundation.”
  • “Reconnect to your strengths” by learning how to access your innate talents and values.
  • Instead of using the “just say no” strategy, offer alternatives and emphasize that you want the company to succeed.
  • An accurate, realistic view of every situation allows you to “see the larger field.”
  • A goal that evokes passion and resonates with your values is a “worthy enough win.”
  • The five “positive plays” that facilitate “constructive action” are “healthy compromise, candid conversations, positive limits, skillful influence” and “constructive exit.”
  • Measure success by how well your professional behavior aligns with your values.

Summary

The Nature of Compromise

“The compromise trap is the gradual erosion of vitality, passion and confidence that occurs when you deal with unhealthy pressure by playing along...and compromising in unhealthy ways.” When you play this game, you may make what you believe are minor concessions to obtain a greater goal. Yet if yielding goes against your closely held principles, conceding may prove harmful and demoralizing. Most people feel that the price of standing up against the tide of company pressure is too dear. Still, the costs of caving in are as high. You pay with your health, credibility and self-esteem. Redefining the game allows you to act with integrity by pushing back, confronting difficulties, making tough decisions and finding positive alternatives.

Elizabeth Doty is the founder of WorkLore, a coaching and leadership development consultancy which specializes in helping leaders increase engagement, alignment and integrity by keeping their commitments real.

Jim was excited about his new job as sales director for a floor covering company. The company sold a line of green products that didn’t use harmful chemicals or end up in landfills. But once onboard, Jim discovered that the company also sold broadloom carpeting, a primary landfill offender, and expected Jim to sell it, too. Jim felt misled and compromised. He tried to correct the problem within the company, but met with passivity and vague promises. To keep his job, Jim made an “unhealthy compromise,” sacrificing a core belief for a paycheck.

“The whole world changes when you decide not to cave out of fear.”

All companies pressure their employees. This pressure can be “healthy” or “unhealthy.” Healthy pressure motivates employees to reach admirable goals such as reducing unnecessary costs to increase profits or providing excellent service to customers. It leads to compromise that sacrifices something of “lower value” to attain an objective of “higher” merit. That is “healthy compromise.” Unhealthy pressure, however, can push employees to erode their values over time in the face of requests to carry out activities that make them uncomfortable, such as misleading customers or tweaking sales figures. “Unhealthy compromise” makes employees forfeit something of value, such as integrity or family time, for something that’s not worth the sacrifice, such as a promotion.

“Concern over status is a common reason why people conform or get caught up in comparisons and hypercompetition.”

Unhealthy pressure originates from internal and external sources. External pressures may include a noxious company culture, unscrupulous managers, unrealistic goals, and faulty products or procedures. Your drive to succeed creates internal pressure if it leads to flawed behavior, such as gossiping, cheating or lying. In Western cultures, people often feel they need to “play the game” to get ahead. This might mean keeping your thoughts to yourself rather than speaking out against a bad idea or policy, or it could mean participating in cutthroat office politics.

“Every time you cross a line or betray a commitment, you take a bite out of your self-respect, your confidence and your passion for what you are doing.”

Most compromises are subtle. Company culture encourages people to conform to certain thoughts and behavior. Employees who attempt to swim against the tide risk having managers label them as rebellious, contrary or uncooperative. This happens even in the best of companies. If everyone at your firm works evenings and weekends, you risk being tagged as lazy or unmotivated if you leave work before others. So you compromise, sacrificing your family time and relationships.

“When you are caught in the compromise trap, it feels as though you are selling pieces of your soul but with very few other viable alternatives.”

Instead, “redefine the game”: Keep what matters to you foremost, letting that guide your behavior and actions. When you view events in this positive manner, you will “engage at a higher level.” Faced with a tough situation, you will draw from your strengths and stick to your values. You will use your creativity and talents to find alternative solutions.

The Price You Pay

Over time, unhealthy compromises, big and small, create unhealthy stress. When your actions do not align with your principles, you pay a price. You may feel creatively blocked, emotionally drained or bullied. You fall back on rationalization and “tune out” the incongruity between your home and work life. You become hyperfocused on achieving your goals – hoping that the rewards will justify the means – and you abdicate your decision-making ability to others.

“You can redefine the game by staying, leaving or doing something in between.”

The fall into the compromise trap progresses through five stages:

  1. “Signing up” – You start a job with good intentions, willing to cooperate and adapt.
  2. “Getting hooked” – You enjoy positive reinforcement: promotions, raises and recognition.
  3. “Getting stuck in the cycle” – You don’t want to threaten your investment in your job by rocking the boat.
  4. “Hitting the limit” – You reach a crisis point that makes you question your actions.
  5. “Freeing yourself” – You review your options and consider other choices.
“When you consider the costs of compromise, you clarify what is at stake.”

How can you avoid the compromise trap? Knowledge is the best weapon. Start by understanding some common misconceptions. One fallacy is that compromise is necessary for finding and agreeing upon solutions. Although this is often true, compromise is never appropriate if it requires you to betray a deeply held value. People assume that good companies do not exert unhealthy pressure or force poor choices. Sadly, even the most well-intentioned enterprises can fall short. Moreover, you can’t relinquish the responsibility for correcting a bad situation to management. Regardless of your position, speak up. The consequences may not be as dire as you fear. Instead of using fiat – the “just say no” strategy – try a softer approach by offering alternatives and emphasizing that you want the company to succeed. Bring about change from within by using your influence, position and knowledge.

Game Changers

Once you learn how to identify the compromise trap, you can free yourself to “engage at a higher level.” Be purposeful and pragmatic. When you challenge the system, the system actually benefits. Socio-economic research supports the theory that “families, organizations, teams, individuals, and even societies can grow and evolve as they gain a critical mass of awareness of what is not working and invent new options in an ongoing process of change.” You can bring about productive engagement through constructive negotiation, frank and honest communication, and the adroit use of influence. It helps to draw ethical lines that you will not cross. Finally, if you are in a damaging situation that you cannot change, be willing to walk away.

“The fundamental assumption when you dare to engage at a higher level is that people and systems can learn.”

Standing up to unhealthy pressure and engaging at a higher level is not easy. It requires a strong “personal foundation” based on the following six elements:

1. “Reconnect to Your Strengths”

To counter unhealthy pressure and stress, draw upon your inner resources. These include your unique talents, beliefs, creativity, ingenuity and communication skills. Unfortunately, deleterious work imposes a strain. Its demands can make accessing these resources more difficult, especially when you need them most. However, carrying out certain practices helps you connect to your inner strengths. Put yourself in the right frame of mind by finding triggers that activate your capabilities and values. For example, one manufacturing manager posted pictures of his family beside his desk because he wanted to do good work so he wouldn’t let them down.

“When you take that risk, what you get back is soul.”

What experiences can you draw upon to connect with your strengths and talents? Recall a situation in which you acted admirably. Feel the emotions you experienced in that situation. The next time you feel challenged, use this experience to motivate you to do what’s right. Access your inner assets over the long term by implementing routines and practices that connect you to your core values and abilities. Frequently find activities to carry out that boost your mind, body, and spirit, so you can face adversity with strength.

2. “See the Larger Field”

Work that is focused on meeting specific goals can narrow your vision. This degree of concentration can blind you to encroaching realities and their consequences. Let the outside world in; try to adopt a broader perspective. Acknowledge and accept unpleasant realities, such as unhealthy work pressure, so you can ask the right questions and make the right decisions. No industry is immune to the conflicts caused by the need to achieve fixed goals. Identifying these contentious “hotspots” allows you to dodge short- and long-term ethical pitfalls. To avoid unhealthy compromise, ask yourself five questions:

  1. “What am I being asked to do or go along with?”
  2. “What do I have to gain?”
  3. “What would I be giving up?”
  4. “What are the hidden ‘costs of compromise’?”
  5. “Is this a healthy compromise?”

3. “Define a Worthy Enough Win”

A worthy enough win is a goal that evokes your passion and resonates with your values. With this win in mind, you can focus on a long-term commitment rather than an immediate gain. Working toward a greater good imbues your day-to-day duties with a higher purpose. When you set your sights on a worthwhile goal, you will speak out with less fear of the consequences. Your drive and enthusiasm will influence those around you to join your pursuit. Define your mission by asking what truly matters to you. Once you know the answer, you’ll find the courage to stick by this principle regardless of what’s at stake. This may lead you to explore your “professional quest,” the work that gives your life meaning. Pursuing a professional quest allows you to operate at a higher level, as it influences your practical decisions and helps you resolve contradictions.

4. “Find Your Real Team”

Surround yourself with supportive, positive people. If you don’t have a strong back-up system, you’re more likely to conform to the culture around you. To thwart unhealthy pressure, develop a real team, a network of allies that reinforces the best in you and the best decisions for you. Your family, your extended family, your friends and the people you interact with professionally form your network. This backup system provides a sounding board that helps you weigh your options, challenge your assumptions, set your priorities and stay true to your values. Your professional network can help you identify opportunities, obtain information and connect with like-minded people. Sharing your dreams and long-term goals with the people closest to you can provide clarity as well as reinforcement. For example, when Gary wanted to cut back on his work hours to concentrate on his music, he was surprised that his wife totally supported the change. She wanted him to be happy and had his best interests at heart.

5. “Make Positive Plays”

You want your company to do the right thing, but you also want to protect yourself. Promote positive change by focusing on the outcome rather than any need to achieve a personal triumph. Gain people’s trust, use your influence constructively and bring allies into the fold. Use these five positive plays to facilitate “constructive action”:

  1. “Healthy compromise” – Forfeit something of less value to reach a higher goal.
  2. “Candid conversations” – Accept responsibility. To initiate change, speak openly and honestly about challenging issues.
  3. “Positive limits” – Know your boundaries; stay within them without making others feel defensive or aggressive.
  4. “Skillful influence” – Exert gentle, selective pressure to attain your goals.
  5. “Constructive exit” – When you must leave, set a positive precedent with your exit.

6. “Keep Your Own Score”

Judge yourself by your own definition of success rather than by external metrics. Relate your success directly to how well you align your professional behavior with your value system. Validation from within or from your trusted network will make you less vulnerable to unhealthy pressure. Boost your efforts with support from like-minded allies. Set a benchmark that you can work toward so you feel that you are progressing in your quest. Lastly, as trite as it may seem, count your blessings. Being appreciative and acknowledging the good things in your life will sustain you in troubled times and replenish your resolve when you face difficulties.

About the Author

Elizabeth Doty is the founder of WorkLore, a coaching and leadership development consultancy which specializes in helping leaders increase engagement, alignment and integrity by keeping their commitments real.


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